Tag Archives: Sex & Gender

Going for Gold

11th
Nov. × ’09

Check out an article I wrote for Sexis Magazine about the sexual phenomenon of golden showers. Warning: This is not typical Rabbit Write fare and may be the most sexually explicit I’ve ever gotten in my writing, so if you aren’t comfortable with reading something so overtly sexual  or if you just aren’t comfortable with [...]

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In Defense of Slut-O-Ween

29th
Oct. × ’09

Annabelle River recently wrote a blog post, defending my favorite holiday, Dress-Like-A-Whore-Day– or Halloween. And I am right there with her. Hating on the spray-tanned “slutty” Disney Princesses, Playboy Bunnies and naughty nurses has become Internet feminist protocol, and I’m yawning. Halloween is the one holiday that celebrates naughtiness, it has become the one night [...]

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Confessions of a Teenage Bisexual

26th
Oct. × ’09

Check out out my new article at Sexis Online Magazine, Confessions of a Teenage Bisexual. “Who doesn’t remember their first crush? I was four years old; she was my Sunday School teacher, tall with pale skin and long sandy brown hair nipping just above her waist. I remember feeling excited by her, romantic toward her. [...]

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Women and Porn

23rd
Oct. × ’09

Since my late teen years, identifying as a pro-sex feminist, I wanted to be okay with porn, to like porn, to be the girlfriend that you could not only openly talk about porn with, but trade with from vast collections. I wanted to be comfortable with porn, but in reality I wasn’t. Whether it is [...]

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Sex, The Internet & Privacy

16th
Oct. × ’09

photo cred It has been said before but the Internet is changing us. And it has already forever changed our sex lives. We can now anonymously (or non-anonymously) engage in whatever kink, chat, turn-on or hook-up is imaginable. We can talk openly in many spaces about our sexual curiosities, fears and beliefs. I’ve recently moved [...]

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Who should pay for dates?

9th
Oct. × ’09

When Ned and I first met there were lots of dates, gazing across restaurant tables with bedroom eyes, playing footsie between witty banter. But my cool would come to a freeze when the check was dropped between us. Should I offer? What should I do? Even when I wanted to offer, it was hard to [...]

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YOUR PERIOD.

28th
Aug. × ’09

Yesterday, I made the switch to a re-usable menstrual cup. Until this week, I was still stuck in the view I had when I was 18 and first read about menstrual cups: a resounding, “Ewwwwwwwwww!” The idea of being closer to my cycle and body in this way began to intrigue me recently, rather than [...]

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How Naked Jen got me Naked, an Interview with a Guerilla Nudist

31st
Jul. × ’09

Naked Jen’s nickname is straight-forward. Naked Jen gets naked everywhere: on the street, while walking her dogs, touring on vacation, on the steps of the capitol building and most recently at Chicago’s Navy Pier at it’s most crowded — just after the fireworks grand finale. She records this public nudity on her blog, NakedJen.com It [...]

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In Praise of Bisexual Men, Dandies

17th
Jun. × ’09

So, I have a type, this isn’t about haircuts or height or shoes (it goes without saying that my type have impeccable taste in footwear.) The guys that get me every time are bisexual. Growing up my main crushes were: Prince, David Bowie, Tupac and Connor Oberst. I’m not saying that Tupac was bi…but I [...]

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The (Teenage) problem without a name: Girls and Depression

15th
May. × ’09

Doctor: What are you doing here, honey? You’re not even old enough to know how bad life gets. Cecilia: Obviously, Doctor, you’ve never been a 13-year-old girl For many, adolescence recalls a bleak era we would prefer to bury in our subconscious. According to lectures by Stephen Hinshaw of the department of psychology at UC [...]

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