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It’s just me and my fluffy vest wearing side-kick Alle Malice chatting about being ladies and exploring porn. To listen podcast style, use audio below. In this video, I dare you guys to find me some feminist porn for straight girls (AND WAIT, FILAMENT JUST DID…still more plz) and then we ask: what was the first porn you saw?
****BONUS***** It’s the OUT TAKES! This is what happens when we kill an entire bottle of wine…with the camera still on.
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My parents are divorced. So when there was a sex scene on telly my mother and I would sit in stony silence. If I was with Dad, in fact to this day, he would feel the need to say something like “Rude bits!” or “I’m not old enough to be watching this.” He used to do similar things with kissing.
Neither was particularly productive but Mum’s version was less embarrassing and less inclined to make me feel like I shouldn’t be watching. Certainly neither allowed for me to feel like I was supposed to be enjoying it.
I just don’t know what the proper way to deal with this is. It seems to be more about the parent’s anxiety than the kid’s.
Rabbit..
I’ve just discovered your site and am trying to read as much as I can. I am straight, I have been worried for a long time that maybe a part of me was gay because when I was 12/13 and starting out to masterbate, I got turned on with the thought of being with another girl. Now I am pretty sure I am straight .. but the whole woman/woman thing does turn me on, I guess.
But I am afraid of being sexual. I have tried to watch porn a few times … I’m 23, have been in a relationship with an amazing guy for four years. But somehow I am scared of porn. I don’t actually like the look of a penis .. I don’t want to look at it.
I don’t know where to go or how to work on this. I want to feel good about feeling turned on .. and not ashamed. As you can imagine I have a hard time with sex because often I just don’t feel like it. I have depression and am in recovery from an eating disorder, and I am sure this plays into it somehow …
But how do you think you could work on a fear of sex? And to believe that sex IS ok – and to feel turned on, is also ok…
Hope it’s ok I wrote here, I thought “just do it, reach out and ask!”
Thanks…
Xx