“It’s nothing new, but straight men have been slowly getting more in touch with their feminine sides, in ways both emotional and aesthetic. And while that’s not at all a bad thing, I like to think that masculinity is just as beautiful, legitimate and valuable as femininity. I love masculinity. I love the culture of men being men, being gentlemen: the clothes, the haircuts, the strength in competitiveness, independence, ambition and assertiveness. I want to celebrate the best of masculinity, but it’s just not in vogue right now.

When talking about the feminization of men in culture, fingers are often pointed at the metrosexual trend, and some vague stereotype of an effeminate gay man masterminding it all. Actually, as gay culture gains a greater foothold in society, it seems to be given accord largely through this feminized stereotype. And while femme gays may garner more attention, gay culture has rich roots in masculinity that is rarely spoken of. Perhaps uncovering this dusty history could allow for a broader and more accepted celebration of all men?”

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“…If appearances of asexuals on the daytime talk show circuit has shed light on anything, it’s that asexuality is a hot-button topic. “There’s a fascinating phenomenon,” says Jay. “If I talk about my asexuality, it suddenly puts the spotlight on the sexuality of the person I am talking to, and however they feel about their sexuality comes out.” For some, an asexual’s lack of desire can trigger repressed feelings. Jay equates the experience with a straight person asserting their heterosexuality when a gay is present. “I get a lot of people who feel the need to talk about how sexual they are,” he says. Read the Story Here!

While there is a slight rush of exhibitionism that I am riding, being able to proudly flash the internet is almost healing & in my mind serves as a “fuck off” to the mainstream perception of hotness. I have A-cups but not because I am waif-thin. I am on the medium side of a healthy, normal weight for my size. I have curving hips, a soft belly and thighs– I am curvy, and that doesn’t mean having big breasts! I can be sexy & it doesn’t mean sacrificing my health or my intelligence.

I am enjoying this celebration of my body– my body the way it is right now.

Celebrate your body as is today, take some time to admire your body without focusing on flaws or self-attacking, spend some naked time with yourself, snap some photos!

P.S. the dollar bill photo on the blog is a sort of non sequitur here…it was actually part of an elaborate joke photo shoot but I still think it is funny/sexy on it’s own.

“On the L in Chicago, an average thirty-something man sits quietly in his seat. Suddenly a little plastic ring falls out from his pant leg and rolls along the floor. There are thousands of men all over the country walking around secretly rigged up with devices in their pants—made of plastic, metal, tape and other items that yank the skin of the penis. And no, this isn’t some sexual fetish or kink.” CLICK to read the entire story!

Warning: This is not typical Rabbit Write fare and may be the most sexually explicit I’ve ever gotten in my writing, so if you aren’t comfortable with reading something so overtly sexual  or if you just aren’t comfortable with hearing me be so explicit do not click that link!!

“Who doesn’t remember their first crush? I was four years old; she was my Sunday School teacher, tall with pale skin and long sandy brown hair nipping just above her waist. I remember feeling excited by her, romantic toward her. I wasn’t sure what I wanted to do with her but I had fantasies of grandly sweeping her away to do…something.” Click for more!